SUMMARY
6'1". ENTJ. Competitive, Protector, Provider, Independent Thinker, Stoic, Affectionate, Playful, Passionate Executive, Musician & Martial Arts man seeks fit, talkative, social, playful, affectionate feminine partner.
MY IDEAL PARTNER
I am looking for a partner who has the following qualities:
What I Offer
In a partnership, I commit to:
Shared Vision
Together, we can build a partnership where:
COMMUNICATION
I value open and honest communication. I enjoy casual texts and phone conversations. I appreciate consistency. While I may not always respond immediately due to professional commitments, I will reply as soon as possible.
MEETING / AVAILABILITY
I prefer to start with a phone conversation,
followed by a video call, and
then meet in person, to assess our chemistry.
So neither of us invest too much, mentally, time-wise, or emotionally, until we know there is chemistry in person.
As a busy executive, I may have limited availability but am committed to making time for the right person.
DISTANCE
Distance is not a concern for me; I am willing to travel for the right connection.
PACE
As to pace, I believe in taking things at a comfortable pace for both partes. A guideline I have, out of respect for what we could be together, is that I will not kiss or have sex on the first date.
METRICS
My friends describe me as ambitious, relentless, compassionate.
Strengths Finders describes me as Command, Ideation, Strategic, Duty, & Responsibility.
DISC profile describes me as Creative, Dominant
Myers Briggs type is ENTJ: (The Commander) Extraversion, Intuition, Thinking, Judging.
My primary Love Languages are physical touch, then quality time, then words of appreciation.
Communication style: Assertive
Enneagram: 1 (99% match), 3 (89% match), 8 (78% match), 2 (69% match), 4 (64% match), 6 (85% match), 5 (76% match), 7 (63% match), 9 (50% match)
Emotional Intelligence Test (PsychologyToday): 82% (82 out of 100)
E-Colors: Forthcoming
FAMILY
I am divorced with two daughters, aged 9 and 7, who primarily live with their mother. I have them every other weekend.
My relationship with my kids is based in positive communication, helping each other, learning from each other, and emotional intelligence. We go to parks and museums. Each is different than the other and together they complement each other.
CHILDREN
I am open to 1-2 more kids but with the right person. Otherwise, I am indifferent as I already have two Children.
CAREER
I have over 20 years of experience as a senior executive in my industry.
TRAITS
INTERESTS
FAVORITE DISCUSSION TOPICS
ACTIVITIES WITH A PARTNER
GOALS
PASSIONS
MY PERSONA
DOES NOT LIKE/PET PEEVES
QUIRKS
POTENTIAL GROWTH AREAS
DIVORCE
Why did my ex and I Divorce?
DIMENSIONS
MANTRA
MAY WE TOGETHER BECOME GREATER THAN THE SUM OF ALL OF US
SEXUALITY
I deeply appreciate the scent, presence, and energy of a woman, and I am naturally affectionate and very sexual. While I believe physical intimacy is an essential part of a relationship, I approach it with respect and understanding. Out of consideration for you, I wouldn’t rush into this aspect during the initial stages of getting to know one another. I may express my affection openly, but I always prioritize your comfort and boundaries. I lean toward being direct, but always in a way that respects and honors my partner. If I ever seem too affectionate or forward, just let me know—I’ll gladly adjust to make you feel at ease.
I have had women be disingenuous, touting a strong sex drive competing with mine only to be told later that we were having too much sex. Please be honest and set realistic expectations, don't just tell me what I want to hear.
CONFLICT
Disagreements and conflicts are natural in any relationship, and I believe they offer an opportunity for growth and understanding. I don’t shy away when challenges arise—instead, I work through them with patience and a commitment to resolution. I seek a partner who shares this mindset and is willing to navigate tough times together. If a conflict or misunderstanding comes up, I encourage open, respectful dialogue. If I'm wrong, I welcome that feedback and I welcome learning from miscommunication, and I believe a calm and constructive approach can resolve almost anything.
As for jealousy, I simply don’t entertain it. Jealousy is a waste of time and energy. I prefer to trust my partner and focus on what we can control, rather than stressing over hypotheticals.
CRITICISM
If I ever do something that upsets or offends you, I ask for patience and understanding in how it’s addressed. Approach me with the benefit of the doubt, and I promise to remain open, thoughtful, and eager to learn. I welcome feedback, whether it’s constructive criticism or guidance. I know I’m not perfect, but I strive to grow and understand different perspectives. I don’t take offense or react negatively to honest conversations, and I see criticism as an opportunity for self-improvement and deeper connection.
MASCULINITY
I subscribe to an old fashioned idea of masculinity, that balances with and supports its feminine counterpart.
In my humble opinion, a real man:
And, in my humble opinion, a real man:
HYPOTHETICAL SCENARIOS
Conflict:
If I ever feel frustrated or upset about something, I believe in addressing it with kindness and respect. I would share my feelings calmly, always keeping in mind that I might have misunderstood or misinterpreted the situation. If the timing isn’t right to fully resolve the issue, we can revisit it later when we’re both in a better frame of mind. I see conflict as an opportunity to deepen understanding and build greater closeness in our relationship.
A weekend together:
After we get out of bed, we make breakfast together. We support each other in our independent work out routines. Then, if we aren't going out with our own individual friends to hang out, we travel fly somewhere, go for a hike, go kayaking, go to a museum, we do something fun. We keep it easy for lunch but we watch what we eat. Evening time we snuggle together maybe watching TV or a movie, or reading together. We make dinner together or one makes dinner, the other cleans the dishes. We go out for the night to a party, gala or we host a party/get together at our place.
The next day, much the same, except maybe during the day I'm getting some work done and you are too and both at home, we hang out through that.
VALUES
QUESTIONS (Things I am curious to know and will ask)
1. What can I do to help you achieve your life goals?
2. What can I do to help you achieve your business/financial goals?
3. The last relationship you were in--- what made that person special enough that you felt he was good enough to get into a relationship with?
4. What was your last relationship like?
FINAL NOTE
Dating can feel overwhelming and challenging, but it’s also an opportunity for growth and connection. This platform has been a valuable tool for both discovering meaningful introductions and identifying where there may not be alignment—whether it’s with individuals who might be emotionally unavailable, overly negative, or not in a place to foster a positive connection.
If you’ve made it this far, thank you for taking the time to learn a bit about me. I welcome the opportunity to add more dimension and depth to what’s written here and explore whether we have chemistry.